The Marriage ProjectMarriage-first matchmaking
Serious matchmaking for people who mean it.
One thoughtful match at a time. No swiping, no endless feeds. And you only pay when a real conversation begins.
Built for lifelong compatibility. Matched by algorithm, guarded by real intent.
How it works
A calmer path to a serious relationship
The Marriage Project replaces the dating-app grind with a structured, intentional process, from a thoughtful questionnaire to a single, focused connection.
Tell us who you are
A dynamic, structured questionnaire captures your values, intentions, and non-negotiables, the things that actually predict a lasting match.
Meet one match at a time
Our matching engine combines hard filters with a vector-based compatibility algorithm, then presents a single reciprocal match, with no scrolling and no comparison shopping.
Chat only when it's mutual
When both people approve within the 72-hour window, an exclusive chat opens. You pay only then, for a real conversation, not a subscription.
Why TMP
Designed for intention, not addiction
One reciprocal match
You see one person at a time. It keeps attention where it belongs: on a real possibility, not an infinite queue.
Mutual approval to chat
Conversations open only after both people say yes. No unsolicited messages, no pressure.
Vector-based compatibility
Our algorithm scores values and intent as vectors alongside hard filters, so matches are meaningful, not just nearby.
Fair, transparent pricing
Pay-per-lead means you're charged only when a mutual chat begins. No subscriptions, no paywalled swipes.
Privacy by design
Matching and chat are securely server-managed. Your profile is shared deliberately, never broadcast.
A 72-hour window
Enough time to consider thoughtfully, short enough to stay decisive. No matches left in limbo.
Pricing
You only pay when it's mutual
No subscription. No pay-to-swipe. The Marriage Project charges a single fair fee at the moment a real, two-sided conversation opens.
- ✓ Unlimited, thoughtfully-matched presentations
- ✓ Full questionnaire & compatibility profile
- ✓ Charged only when both people approve
- ✓ Exclusive one-to-one chat when it's mutual
- ✓ Cancel anytime, with nothing to unsubscribe from
Matches begin soon
We're putting the finishing touches on The Marriage Project. Serious, marriage-minded matching is on its way. If you'd like to hear when we open, write to us and we'll keep you posted.